Anyone who considers a pet to be a beloved companion, family member and friend understands the pain that comes from the loss of that pet. The grieving process is much like that of losing any loved one. Here are a few tips to help cope with the grief and with the difficulties in losing a family pet

Getting Through the Grief

First, it is okay to grieve for a pet. It is natural to be upset and feel tremendous loss. You should never be ashamed or silly to be grieving over the loss of your family pet. Dogs and cats can live for quite a number of years and during that time you formed a bond and a relationship with your pet. It is only natural that you would feel a deep sense of loss when you no longer have that pet to comfort you. Other people may not understand your pet/owner bond, especially if they do not have pets themselves, but you should remember that you are not alone.

What’s Next – How to Handle Your Pet’s Remains

This decision does not come lightly, but you have several options:

• Leave the remains at the pet clinic for disposal. This may be the easiest decision in the midst of grief and sadness. Some clinics do charge a fee so check first.
  
• Home Burial – This is a popular choice for the more formal option. If you have the space for it, this is economical and allows you to create your own special area for your pet. City regulations may prohibit pet burials so be sure to check first.
  
• Pet Cemetery – Costs vary depending on the type of services you choose. This allows you to bur your pet with dignity and safekeeping.
  
• Cremation – Usually the less expensive option. You can bury the remains after cremation, scatter them or even keep them in a decorative urn (there are a wide variety of urns available).
  

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